May 19

Conflict and you

When I discuss clients issues more times than not they tell me all the things the other person has done wrong. This is a perception and usually driven by the negative feelings held towards the other person. This is not healthy, and can damage long term relationships regardless if you want to be in them or not. For example the parental relationship is for a lifetime. You don’t have to like one another but for the child’s mental well-being there’s a need to find a way to work together. What can you do?
Own your behaviour in the conflict. This involves a serious effort on your part to look inwardly as to what you can do differently. The only thing you control is you. Conflict coaching can help you find a better way.

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